No, I’m not talking about where to go for drinks tonight.
I’m taking about the notion of setting the bar. You always hear allusions to the notion that we don’t “set the bar” high enough, whether it be at where we work, our relationships, personal and professional goals, our government officials, and so on and so forth. Some of the main problems I have with his idea, is the bar itself: who set’s the bar? What is it and how is it defined? Why do we feel we are consistently not reaching, lowering or even knowing what the bar is?
Marketing guru and best selling “post-industrial” writer and blogger Seth Godin, writes that this leads us to engage in “Bar gymnastics”:
Some people I know work hard to lower the bar at work.
That was my strategy at gym class in high school. Not only did I do the minimum amount permitted, I worked hard to do just a little bit less than that. By the time the semester was over, the teacher was relieved if I even bothered to show up at all.
Most people seek to meet the bar. They figure out what’s expected, and do that.
A few people, very few, work to relentlessly raise the bar. She’s the one who overdelivers on projects, shows up ahead of schedule, instigates, suggests and pushes.
Raising the bar is exhausting, no doubt about it. I’m not sure the people who engage in this apparently reckless behavior would have it any other way, though. They get to experience a fundamentally different day, a different journey and a different reputation than everyone else.
His idea is that it is the few individual top achievers who raise the bar irrespective of the environment that surrounds them nor the resistance of those around them who want to set the bar back down, that bull their way through and set the standard for the higher bar. As he writes, “success is not about speeding up the assembly line as much as it relies on individuals able to create leaps forward. The person capable of doing that sort of work is in far higher demand than ever before”. In other words, it’s that nerdy kid in class who gets the top test score and throws off the grading curve for the rest of the class and does this, irrespective of the bulling and name calling he/she will get for setting the higher bar.
This isn’t a bad way to define it. Your either going to lower the bar, get by and meet the bar or be the few that will raise the bar and set the standard. Ironically, when you think about it, about as much effort is expended lowering the bar or just getting by to meet it as it would to work to raise it. Given this, it’s probably best to strive to be the few raising the bar and setting the standards.
A word of warning though: those who consistently work to lower or just get by are majority and should you be the one who challenges their status quo, will be met with much resistance and risk the threat of retaliation. In our past, these individuals were imprisoned and in the extreme, put to death. Something to keep in mind…